![]() First I started spotting behaviours consistent with insecure attachement. Someone recommended it to me in 2014 and the process slowly started. Not impressed, left feeling like I was constantly defending myself in my head (they will probably look at one another knowingly while saying 'classic avoidant') and definitely wouldn't recommend this book. They reckon it's highly unlikely for an avoidant person to change their ways unless ,and I quote: 'somethibg traumatic happens to them and they are forced to go to therapy and hopefully address this issue, but it's unlikely'. For people like myself the 'advice' was that there wasn't any. ![]() The chapter on advice for anxious people was twice as long as the one for avoidants and the crux of the recommendation was basically don't be ashamed of your neediness just find someone who will put up with it and to avoid avoidant people?!. The authors were blatantly bias in favour of anxiously attached people and they seemed to push the message that if you don't commit to someone fully you are emotionally stunted. Well this was a big lesson in expectation. This book started out well, I found myself firmly situated in the avoidance category, amazed to read someone explain my characteristics so clearly and ready to take the no doubt up coming advice to better myself and relationships. Shaver, PhD, Distinguished Professor of -This text refers to the paperback edition. Based on twenty-five years of research, laced with vivid and instructive examples, and enriched with interesting and well-designed exercises, the book provides deep insights and invaluable skills that will benefit every reader." -Phillip R. It's a valuable tool whether you are just entering a relationship with a new partner or-as in my case-even after you've been married 21 years, and had thought you knew everything about your spouse." -Mariette DiChristina, editor in chief, "Scientific American" ""Attached" is a fascinating and enormously useful guide to one of life's most important ventures-finding and sustaining a secure, satisfying love relationship. "A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship." -John Gray, PhD., bestselling author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" "Amir Levine and Rachel Heller have written a very smart book: It is clear, easy to read and insightful. With fascinating psychological insight, quizzes and case studies, Dr Amir Levine and Rachel Heller help you understand the three attachment styles, identify your own and recognize the styles of others so that you can find compatible partners or improve your existing relationship. ![]() Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment explains that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways: Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner’s ability to love them back. Heller reveal how an understanding of attachment theory – the most advanced relationship science in existence today – can help us find and sustain love. Is there a science to love? In this groundbreaking book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel S. The seller will arrange the return pick up for these items.įor seller-fulfilled items from Sports collectibles and Entertainment collectibles categories, the sellers need to be informed of the damage / defect within 10 days of delivery.'A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a relationship.' – John Gray, PhD., bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus An insightful look at the science behind love, Attached offers readers a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections. These items are not eligible for self-return. Note: For seller fulfilled items from Books, Movies & TV Shows categories, the sellers need to be informed of the damage/ defect within 14 days of delivery.įor seller-fulfilled items from Fine Art category, the sellers need to be informed of the damage / defect within 10 days of delivery. Learn more about returning seller fulfilled items. If you do not receive a response from the seller for your return request within two business days, you can submit an A-to-Z Guarantee claim. If you’ve received a seller-fulfilled product in a condition that is damaged, defective or different from its description on the product detail page on Amazon.in, returns are subject to the seller's approval of the return. The return timelines for seller-fulfilled items sold on Amazon.in are equivalent to the return timelines mentioned above for items fulfilled by Amazon.
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